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"Shabbat Shalom from Bangkok"

Mission of light, goodness and optimism

By the Grace of G-d

Dear Friend,

The tragic abduction and murder of the late Rabbi Kogan in UAE by has called the world’s attention to the Rebbe’s Shluchim – emissaries posted the world over.

In a radical departure from the usually insular model of the devout and Chasidic way of life, the Rebbe charged his students with moving outside the bastions of established Jewish communities and enclaves. 

The mission was and remains to bring the world closer and closer to its perfected state of messianic peace. By helping people in whatever way possible. In being sensitive to their material needs, and in inspiring them to be more in touch with their inner G-dly soul. 

These goals are achieved by encouraging our fellows in doing more mitzvahs, studying more Torah, and thus embracing the true G-dly mission that every person has. 

It’s a universal mission for all the inhabitants of our world. A Jew has the mission to be a Jew with all of our mitzvot and every human as a ‘child of Noach’ has the mission of living life directed and inspired by the universal laws of Divine morality. 

One of our young pioneering Chabad rabbi’s was brutally murdered in the UAE as he did his job diligently, spreading the warmth and the light of Torah, Mitzvot, goodness and kindness.

This is a tragic story.

As I wrote earlier this week, we need to feel the pain of every life that is snuffed out. When one is killed just because they are a Jew, it touches us all very deeply. We are all part of one collective Am Yisrael.

This weekend, I am joining several thousand colleagues at our annual ‘Kinus Hashluchim’ – gathering of the Rebbe’s emissaries.

The story of Shluchim is a miraculous story. 

Our Parsha tells us the story of the first Jewish born Jew. Yitschak.

‘And Yitschak planted, in that land, one hundred times. G-d blessed him’.

Rashi comments. Even though it was a challenging year for agriculture. Even though the land was not fertile. The yield was one hundred times more than expected.

True, he planted. He put forth effort. But it was G-d’s miraculous blessing that brought his unparalleled success.

My friends, when one walks around the conference of Shluchim, one sees this above verse coming to life around the world.

Miraculous growth. Incredulous stories of how, by Divine Providence the young couples who headed out in their early twenties, saw things come together in a miraculous way.

Yes, they work hard, but the results are incredulously larger than naturally anticipated which makes it obvious and clear that it is G-d’s hand at work.

Here is a story I heard from the Rebbe’s Shliach in a city in Europe last year. I was attending a wedding of a close friend, and the local Chabad rabbi gave me a tour of the Jewish institutions in the city. As he was showing me the impressive Chabad day school, I asked him how he had managed to purchase the buildings. He said that he had received a favorable mortgage from the regional bank. When I asked him if it was easy to get the mortgage, he told me that usually it is very difficult for a non-for-profit institution to get a such a large mortgage with very favorable terms but he had been blessed by a miracle from G-d.

Here is the story the way he told it to me:

The city council of our city invited me to accompany them on a visit to Auschwitz. They wanted a rabbi to join along with them. It was a good opportunity to meet new people so I went along. 

After seeing the site of the death camp, the press who was accompanying us, asked me to share my feelings.

I said, as one whose grandparents lived through the Holocaust and who lost near and dear ones, I have one word. I feel like taking revenge. But let me clarify what I mean by revenge. 

Revenge as taught to me by the Rebbe, means that instead of Judaism and Jews disappearing from the world as the Nazis wanted, I will recommit myself to double and triple my efforts in building Judaism and ensuring that more Jewish children are born into this world.

My words said with much passion, and with such a positive angle to the concept of revenge made a deep impression on the group.

On the next day it made headlines in the newspapers.

‘Rabbi’s REVENGE, adding in Jewish life and light’.

There was an elderly respectable gentleman who had been very quiet throughout the trip, who came over to me and gave me his card. He was visibly moved by my remarks and told me that if I ever needed help I should feel free to call him. 

Upon reading his card, I saw that he was the senior regional manager of a large banking network. I duly filed away his card without much thought.

A few months later, the bank that we banked with was bought out by the larger regional bank. The local manager was being unhelpful. I decided to go to visit that elderly gentleman whose bank had just purchased our local bank.

On the way to the meeting, in which I was going to ask for help in something rather trivial, I got a phone call. The call came from the main school building which we were renting. We had expressed our desire to buy the building, but the owner didn’t want to sell. Out of the blue, the owner now called me, asking me if we wanted to buy the building. 

I was already on the way to the regional bank for a meeting with the highest manager of the region who had pledged to help me.

The meeting now changed directions and emphasis. It now centered on the major acquisition of our school building which the regional bank manager facilitated. The other smaller matter was also resolved without issue.

My friend turned to me and said, this is a sampling of how we succeed in our work. Hashems miracles unfold and manifest in our meager-by-comparison efforts. 

Dear friend, I love these stories. There are myriads of stories like this.

Where Hashems blessings show that even a small effort to do the right thing, can be a catalyst for the most incredibly unimaginable results.

Some of my stories have been recorded in my book ‘Chai from Thai’.  Many others are etched into my memory and new miracles are happening on an ongoing basis.

The Rebbe taught us that to be a ‘Shliach’ which literally means ‘one who is sent’ is to think bigger than ourselves. To recognize that Hashem is sending you on His mission. To embrace the call to action by the Moshe of our generation – the Rebbe – who fueled by his unconditional love of every Jew is empowering us to care for our fellow Jewish wherever they are. Material and spiritually. By building social welfare programs, promoting Judaism and Jewish life and in the signature ‘Mitzvah Campaign’ launched by the Rebbe, by reaching out to every single Jew one mitzvah at a time. 

Here is a message for you and I and anyone who is ready to surprise themselves with the latent potential they have inside of them.

Challenges exist. Boundaries present obstacles for growth. Finances are not easy to come by. Apathy abounds. 

Yet, if you move forward fearlessly and full of faith, you will prevail over all challenges. On the contrary, what will be revealed is that the boundaries and handicaps are intended to make you reach deeper, jump higher and invite the blessings of G-d’s miraculous power into your life.

See here for a short story about the miracles YOU can make.

I am in New York this weekend. You are in my mind as my colleagues and I pray at the Rebbe’s Ohel for our loved ones, our communities and the entire world and as we rededicate ourselves to the singular mission statement of the Rebbe to bring this world to its intended state of being a dwelling place for Hashem.

Join me in this forward march mission of light, goodness and optimism for the glorious future of Mashiach.

DO A MITZVAH TODAY.

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Yosef Kantor

 

 

In memory of Rabbi Zvi Kogan z"l

Dear Friends,

You may have heard the sad, horrifying news about Rabbi Zvi Kogan - Zvi ben Alexander HaKohen, a fellow Chabad Rabbi, 28 years-old, who was murdered by Islamic terrorists after being kidnapped on Thursday in Dubai, while serving the Jewish community in the UAE.

Ever since the signing of the Abraham Accords peace deal with Israel, the Emirates has seen its Jewish population grow exponentially. There have been shuls opened, the first Jewish education center in the Gulf, and a wide selection of kosher food.

Rabbi Zvi and his wife Rebbtzin Rivky Kogan soon moved on Shlichus and lived in Abu Dhabi. She taught in the school while he operated the Rimon Kosher supermarket in Dubai, the city that drew most of the tourists and visitors.

“He was a cheerful person who never said ‘no’ to anyone, always helping and assisting everyone,” a friend of his said. “Every person would leave him feeling better; he always knew how to guide and assist. He was a modest individual who honored his parents in a remarkable way, a truly G-d-fearing person who always remained humble and grateful.”

Our hearts go out to Tzvi’s family and wish them strength and comfort. As we keep sending strength and comfort to our brother and sisters in Israel, to all the families of the murdered, the wounded, the hostages, the heroic soldiers of IDF.

Thank you to all who have reached out to us, as fellow Chabad Shluchim in a more ‘remote – exotic’ location, with empathy, compassion and concern. You love and care mean so much to us and give us strength at this trying time.

For me personally, this reawakens the searing memories of the treacherous attacks on the Chabad House of Mumbai, (sixteen years ago on November 26). It was then, after the horrific murder of our colleagues, that we started to implement security protocols at all our Jewish Thailand locations. This current development and general climate of anti-Semitic hatred, calls for further review and strengthening of security arrangements.

That attack in Mumbai was around the time of the international conference of Chabad Shluchim. This current tragic loss is just a few days before this year’s annual conference. 

The Rebbe repeatedly reminded us that darkness is banished by light, fear is dispelled by acts of connection to G-d and that above all, Jewish life must be celebrated and fulfilled joyously. 

My colleagues and I will recommit ourselves to returning to our countries, cities and communities and adding light and positive energy of Torah and Yiddishkeit even more than before. (Parts of the conference will be streamed live, more details in my weekly email).

Friends, there is a worldwide effort to delegitimize, instill fear, and destroy the Jewish people in Israel and everywhere and this is not a time to stand by. 

We must all take the necessary precautions, ensure that our security protocols are up to date and be proactive about our rights to live openly as Jews without fear and without danger. 

And we must keep our unwavering trust and faith in Hashem ironclad and vibrant.

This has been a very difficult period for the Jewish people.

The horrific attack on October 7th, and the subsequent multi-front war in which we have lost hundreds of IDF soldiers, the holiest of our people, who stand between the Jewish People and those who seek our annihilation. We have also lost innocent civilians who have been killed in rocket attacks and other terror attacks in Israel. 88,000 or so are still displaced from their homes, too many thousands wounded - physically, and so many more emotionally, mentally, psychologically, etc. We continue to pray for the welfare of the captives and their immediate return, in safety and enduring security, as well the as the overwhelming success of those who are putting their life on the line to ensure the safety and security of the Jewish people and all who live in Israel. 

As a peaceful nation, with a Torah of peace, we seek peace for all, and we look forward to a time very soon when there will be goodness and kindness for all of mankind. We are all created in G-d's image, and we all deserve dignity and peace.

Please take the time to connect to your Judaism today in some way. Put on tefillin, give tzedakah and random acts of kindness, to study some of the Torah portion or to read a Psalm, and to strengthen your connection to other people or do any other mitzvah of your choice. Now is the time to commit yourself to Jewish UNITY and think of one way in which you can personally stand up to say: I am my brother's keeper, and I will do something about it.

Our hearts go out to Tzvi’s family and wish them strength and comfort. 

As we keep sending strength and comfort to our brother and sisters in Israel, to all the families of the murdered, the wounded, the hostages, the heroic soldiers of IDF.

We will mourn, we will cry, but more importantly, we will re-energize and shine brighter than ever before.

Zvi - as so many of our brothers and sisters - lived heroically fighting against evil and hate. We must continue your legacy of serving the Jewish people with love and dedication, bringing G-dliness, morality, and kindness to the world, leading to the day when we will see the fulfillment of the prophecies of the Torah, the day when peace will come to our world and all evil will cease--may it be soon.

With best wishes for only the best and happiest of news in the future, and we say to Hashem - Ad Mosai, until when? Enough is enough, its time for all the promises to our ancestors to be fulfilled in reality!

Shavua Tov - may you have a bright, blessed, and good week going forward,

Rabbi Yosef Kantor

Help others, Hashem will help you.

‘Did you do anything special today?’ she asked her husband.

The husband blushed. 

‘Because I had a miracle just now,’ she continued.

One of my overseas friends told me this story about what happened to him this week.

‘A needy member of my community approached me for a loan to take care of something medical. He was asking for several thousand dollars as a loan, but he still owed me several thousand dollars from a previous unpaid loan.

I sent out a note to our Shul group and I was able to collect several thousand dollars to assist him. Within a few hours after he had asked for my help, I sent him the money. Not as a loan but as a tzedakah from our collective shul group.

That evening my wife went out to give a lecture. The intercity road had an oil spill on it. My wife lost control of the car and crashed into another car from the side, while another car rearended her. 

We had a miracle that night.’

My friend asked me ‘do you think there is a correlation between what I did during the day, helping that person, and my wife’s miracle in the evening?’.

He didn’t really mean it as a question. For he knows as I do that the Talmud says.

צדקה תציל ממות

‘Tzedaka saves from death’.

Clearly his benevolent act of tzedakah saved his nearest and dearest from injury or worse G-d forbid.

I love this story because of its clarity. Help others, Hashem will help you.

There is also a very important lesson here that will help us reframe the way we look at the sometimes-burdensome task of helping others.

In this story one sees clearly how Hashem implanted this tzedakah opportunity into my friend’s life. Baruch Hashem my friend acted on it and thus activated the opportunity Hashem had given him.

How many times do we whine and complain when we are called upon to help someone. Sometimes we genuinely can’t help and that is justifiable. We all have limitations.

But sometimes we don’t even listen. We ignore and don’t pay attention to the needs of others. 

That is where we have to be more aware and more attentive.

My friend could have brushed this request off. He had lent the fellow money. He was not yet paid back on that loan. The same individual came to borrow money again. 

My friend rose to the occasion and did what a truly G-dly person should do. He emulated Hashem who always listens to the needs. Especially to the needs of the downtrodden. Those are vulnerable and not able to fend for themselves. 

My friend was not cynical, callous or dismissive. Rather he listened empathetically to his plight and expended effort and time to raise funds to help him.

He acted selflessly.

Little did he know…

Really, he was helping himself more than he could ever imagine.

His wife was miraculously saved from what could have been a major tragedy.

Even financially he should be covered. The police wrote a report about the oil spill which means please G-d the insurance will cover all associated costs.

I am inspired by the obvious timing of these two events. Before my friend even knew that he should be praying for the safety of his loved ones, Hashem had organized the response to his yet unspoken prayers.

A similar theme to the Parsha’s story of Eliezer’s mission on behalf of Avraham to find a wife for Yitschak.

Eliezer was sent to the familial territory of Avraham to find a suitable wife for Yitschak. It was an overwhelming task. Finding ‘a needle in a haystack’ may have seemed easier. Eliezer turned to G-d and prayed that he find the right girl.

Before he even finished his prayer Rivka appeared before him. She fulfilled all the criteria and went on to become Yischak’s wife – our second Matriarch.

Hashem always hears and answers our prayers. Sometimes even faster than we can imagine.

Before we even know that we have an issue that we out to pray about.

Yes, I am saying that it is valid and kosher to motivate yourself to be more empathetic, giving and benevolent to others by recognizing that you are earning Hashem’s commensurate kindness to you and yours.

Helping others, even because you realize you are really helping yourself is fully acceptable according to the Torah.

You know why?

Because for the poor person, the loaf of bread will satisfy his hunger even if you are not one million percent altruistic.

The needy person will be able to pay their rent even if you gave them money with the intention that G-d bless you with success in your endeavors.

If you wait till you refine yourself to be a saintly altruistic Tzadik, you may delay your giving and it may arrive too late. Coming too late can sometimes be fatal G-d forbid.

Tzedaka needs immediacy. And shouldn’t be overthought.

When you have an opportunity.

Just DO IT. 

I mean acts of kindness and tzedakah.

Look out for those who Hashem cares for, the needy, downtrodden, ill and challenged. The consequence? You will not have less or suffer. 

The code of Jewish Law says clearly:

‘A person never becomes poor from giving charity and nothing bad or destructive happens from giving Tzedakah as the prophet says (Isaiah 32, 17) And the deed of righteousness shall be peace’

On the contrary, Hashem will bless you, your loved ones and your wherewithal. 

May Hashem bless Am Yisrael with peace, the safe return of our hostages, the secure homecoming of our soldiers and those who have been displaced and the healing of the wounded. 

May the entire world finally be blessed with the coming of Mashiach and the utopian peaceful state when ‘the wolf will lie with the lamb’, AMEN.

Shabbat Shalom

Rabbi Yosef Kantor

PS. Just under a month away from Chanuka and from end of year, it is a great time to give Tzedakah to help others. Hashem will help you!

Shabbat Shalom from Bangkok

By the Grace of G-d

Thank you all for your concern in response to the news stories and alerts regarding the Jewish/Israeli travelers and institutions in Thailand.

As always, we prioritize the safety of our community. We work closely with Thai police authorities to implement robust security measures, especially during heightened security concerns like this week. Security guards are stationed at all Jewish institutions, and we have significantly increased security protocols across all our branches in Thailand. 

May God watch over and protect all of Am Yisrael in Eretz Yisrael and anywhere they may be in the word.


Rabbi Dovi Deutsch of Chabad Koh Phangan and Thai police issued a statement this week regarding security measures at Chabad Koh Phangan.

Dear Friend,

I was a witness to Jewish history at the beginning of this week.

In Oslo Norway a new Chabad House was opened in a stately, iconic and beautifully renovated building in the center of town.
 

Chabad of Norway's new home

I was privileged to participate in the opening ceremony and give a speech at the Shabbat services.

There is a saying in the Torah that ‘one should not deviate from local custom’. (Of course not if it clashes with Jewish Halacha law).

We see it in this week’s Parsha when the angels disguised as men come to visit Avraham and they partake of a sumptuous meal. Why do they eat if they are angels? The Talmud answers that this teaches us the rule of not deviating from common local practice. They adopted the local practice. Human beings eat. When the angels came in the guise of humans they too (feigned as if they) ate. 

What did I do in Norway that was the custom of the place? 

Let me tell you about my sauna/fjord dip. 

There is a Scandinavian tradition to dip into the chilly waters of the fjord (a deep narrow ocean inlet) after warming up in the adjacent sauna. The temperature now is around 7 degrees Celsius. 

I figured that the traditional custom engendering heightened spirituality of periodic mikva immersion for men blended well with the local Nordic culture of taking a cold plunge.

I had heard many a tale of heroic women keeping the foundational mitzvah of family purity even when conventional mikvahs were not available. My wife’s grandmother shared tales of life in Soviet Russia where immersion took place in frigid and freezing underground mikvahs, oceans or lakes.

Many Chassidic men took icy plunges in rivers in Russia to keep the tradition of tevilah immersion.

The weather in Oslo mid-November, was not nearly as cold as the Russian winter so the cold plunge in Oslo was not daunting. 

A couple of us banded together to rent a private little floating sauna on the fjord. We warmed up the sauna, it got very hot, and then we took a quick plunge into the freezing waters. 


Outside the fjord in Norway

We came out refreshed physically and spiritually. 

Of course, we recognized that we were not at all brave or tough. 

It was quite a simple thing, once feeling boiling hot in the sauna, to jump briefly into the cold waters.

Let me repeat that. 

It is not difficult to jump into the frigid waters after warming up in a sauna and returning to a warm indoors. It is entirely different than the valiant dedication of the Jews who broke the ice to immerse and had to brave the freezing outdoors before and after their immersion.

This is a paradigm for life.

Before you go out into the cold make sure you warm up your insides so that the you can withstand the cold until you get back to a warm environment.

This is why in Jewish tradition one sends one’s children to Torah day and high schools, to be immersed in Torah study for the formative years of their life. After getting ‘hot’ and ‘inspired’ in the cocoon-like holy environment of the hall of Jewish study, prayer and practice one is buttressed with the faith and conviction needed to be able to go out into the ‘freezing’ ‘faith-challenging’ mundane world.

In our annual calendars we have Shabbat and Chagim that provide us with holy infusions and ‘protected space’ so that we can then emerge into material existence and impact them with holiness without being compromised.

Daily we also ‘warm ourselves up’ before going out into the ‘cold’. We pray, put on Tefilin, study Torah at the beginning of the day to inculcate our minds and hearts with connection to Hashem. Once fortified by this introduction to the day, we can then go out and ‘take on the day’ in the bustling marketplace of life.

This juxtaposition – warming up in a sauna before entering the cold fjord waters – was the heart of my experience over the weekend I spent in Oslo celebrating the opening of the new Chabad House in Oslo. 

The building itself is a protected building as it was built in 1850 by a well-known architect. 

Providentially, the year 1851 is the year that it became permissible for Jews to live in Norway since the ban prohibiting Jewish residence in Norway was instituted in 1687.

We attended the local Oslo Synagogue on Shabbat. Ate our Shabbat meals at Chabad House. A ribbon cutting ceremony by the donors at the Chabad House on Sunday early noon.
 


And as a grand finale, a festive dinner and Jewish Unity concert with Jewish superstar Benny Friedman at the Thon Hotel later in the evening.

 

Clip of energy of the Jewish Unity Concert

With all of this action, Norway is still not one of the major international hubs of Jewish life.

Yet, though the local Jewish community is quite sparse, their spirit is alive and vibrant. The Jewish pride and enthusiastic energy that I witnessed among the Jews of Norway at these inaugural events was uplifting and inspiring. 

The singer said that the concert he put on in Oslo was more spirited than the ones he does in NY. In NY he has to work much harder to ‘wake up the crowd’, while in Oslo they were literally raring to go with gusto and amazing energy.

This celebration of Jewish life provides the internal warmth needed to be able to go out into the world as a minority in number but steadfastly Jewish in identity, spirit and most importantly in Jewish practice.

Think of it like a spiritual sauna. It is analogous to getting fired up and toasty hot in a spiritual sauna of Jewish communal celebration and pride. 

This is a unique time we are living in. Never did we expect to face such rabid anti-semitism on college campuses, in major European and American cities and in social media.

Our enemies recognize us wherever we are. If we are going to get called out for being Jews, let us embrace the specialty of it.

It behooves us to embrace our identity as Jewish people, G-d’s ambassadors to the world.

Study Torah. Do more Mitzvahs.

Feel empathy and kinship with all of our brothers and sisters throughout the world, and especially in Israel.

And remember to get toasty hot and inspired by participating in as many happy, joyous, pride-filled Jewish events as you are able. In person, on zoom, via any medium that you live life.

Shabbat Shalom

Rabbi Yosef Kantor

Contemporary heroes

By the Grace of G-d

Dear Friend,

The Chagim, Simchat Torah, Sukkot, Yom Kippur and Rosh Hashana are now several weeks behind us.

The ‘regular’ year has begun. 

The exciting events, sumptuous festive holiday meals and hours immersed in praying, study and holy camaraderie of last month are a warm memory.

Back to 9-5 work.

That is no reason to feel like you are living a life of drudgery.

The best way to live every day of our lives is joyously.

What motivates this joy?

A brief meditation on the following should put a bounce in your step, a smile on your lips and a cheery tune humming in your mind.

Life is one long series of interactions with Hashem in the world that He created. 

He has appointed us as His agents to transform the world into an abode for Him.

If landing your ‘dream job’ in the workplace and getting a humungous pay package makes you feel good, when you work for Almighty G-d how much more should you be happy and joyous above and beyond.

What an epic honor, pleasure and privilege to be given a mission by G-d to transform our material world into the Garden of Hashem that it is destined to become.

It is a good reason to dance. Literally.

Yet, we all know the realities of life and especially the unprecedented times we live in. Admittedly, this can make being happy quite challenging. 

Let me share some of the lessons I learned from contemporary heroes this week.

Earlier this week Avi Borenstein shared the story of the life of his eldest son Ori Moshe hyd. 

The talk was titled ‘From Ostrowiec to Har Hertzl – a bereaved parent’s hsperspective on Israel at war and Am Yisrael’.

Ostrowiec is the village in Poland from which Avi’s family comes. The Jews were all taken to Treblinka to the extermination camp. Avi’s father survived and recently celebrated his one hundredth birthday in Toronto. 

Har Hertzl is the site of Israel's main military cemetery.

Tragically, two days before Yom Kippur, Ori Moshe was killed in Gaza at the young age of 32 as his convoy came under enemy fire. 

After his death a letter that he wrote to his younger brother surfaced. There are many life lessons to be gleaned from that letter. 

Avi, who travels the world for business, has made it his mission to share with others the inspiration that his son shared during his lifetime. From a busy day at a trade show in Bangkok he hurried over to the Chabad House to give his talk.

I was mesmerized by Ori’s father Avi. Here is a father, who lost his son three weeks ago, that is actively and energetically spreading encouragement and hope. He is a man with a mission to share life lessons to be gleaned from his sons honesty, caring and searching for deeper relationship with G-d and Torah. Avi has revealed his indomitable faith and spirit and is using his grief in a positive way by creating an impact and inspiring others to bring more light and goodness to the world. 

From where does he take the strength to keep going with energy and positivity? 

Clearly his neshama (soul) that is referred to as a ‘candle of G-d’ is fueling his unshakeable belief and devotion to Hashem and Am Yisrael.

Let me share another story I heard this week.

Oriyah lost so many friends on October 7th that he felt compelled to run away from the memories that haunted him in Israel. He spent the last year traveling in Thailand.

He spent many a Shabbat at Chabad House in Bangkok with Rabbi Nechemya. 

On the first night of Simchat Torah during the dancing, R’ Nechemya noticed that Oriyah was not there.

The next day at the meal he asked him where he was.

Oriyah told him ‘I just couldn’t dance. My memory took me back to the horrendous losses that I suffered, and I ran out of the Synagogue to my room’.

Rabbi Nechemya told him ‘Tonight there is a second night of Simchat Torah dancing. Please join in the dancing even for a very short while. When you feel you have had enough and can’t dance any more, please come to give me a hug before you go’.

Bolstered by this hug even before it was given, Oriyah danced and danced and danced that second night of Simchat Torah till the dancing finished.

He came to R’ Nechemya the next day and thanked him for the gift of healing. He had thought he could never dance again but on that night of Simchat Torah he found the inner strength to proclaim his love to Hashem and His Torah together with Am Yisrael.

Oriyah said he felt uplifted, inspired and ready to resume the trajectory of resuming his life in Israel. The next day he flew back home to rebuild his life and please G-d start a family.

These stories among so many others touch me deeply.

They are stories of deep tragedy.

Generational suffering.

As well as a story of resilience.

The unbelievable inner strength of the heroic People of Israel to continue to dance with the Torah against all odds. 

A story that depicts the journey that Am Yisrael has been making for the thousands of years of our history. 

In this week's Parsha named ‘go’ ‘lech’ we find the beginning of our journey. Avraham is told by Hashem to leave his land and go to the land ‘which I will show you’. 

Avraham and his wife Sara arrive in Israel (Canaan at the time) and immediately a famine hits the land. They need to go to Egypt to find food. 

Rather than start questioning G-d they simply continue to journey. 

Avraham's life is filled with challenge but it is also filled with deep faith, benevolence and proactive outreach that transmits a joyous positive message as we relive the events in the parsha.

His namesake in 2024 Avi ( = Avraham) Borenstein continues in that special path forged by our forefather.

I feel humbled and inspired by Avi’s greatness.

And the greatness of the other bereaved parents, spouses, children and friends in the ‘club’ that he represents.

Israel is filled with contemporary heroes who have lost loved ones. 

Heroes who are putting their lives on the line to protect our people.

Families whose husbands and fathers have spend the better part of last year in ‘milu’im’ army service. 

I am inspired by my brethren in Israel who live in a constant state of alert for incoming missiles and projectiles.

Under the greatest of challenges, the spirit in the country of Israel and in Am Yisrael as a whole, is one of positivity, unity and mutual responsibility. 

The ‘hit song’ that is wildly popular in Israel today has the following lyrics:

‘Hashem always loves me and always makes sure that I will have only good. And even better, and yet better….’

השם יתברך תמיד אוהב אותי, ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב. ועוד יותר טוב ועוד יותר טוב...

This is the Jewish story. 

A story of indomitable trust in Hashem.

A story of care, compassion and love.

A story of joy and positivity no matter the circumstances.

It may be scary out there, but if we stick together, we are unbreakable, and we have G-d’s promise that He will bring Mashiach and Peace will reign in the world.

Shabbat Shalom

Rabbi Yosef Kantor

Sad???

Dear Friend,

Are you SAD?

I know you may be thinking that I seem to be fluctuating wildly.

Last week I was promoting joy. 

This week I am asking about being sad.

Earlier this week I noticed a news headline about Seasonal Affective Disorder = SAD.

Apparently, when the winter months come, some people suffer bouts of moodiness or even depression.

It has been discovered that having mood changes as the seasons change it is not an isolated phenomenon. It is widespread enough to be given a name and a treatment solution.

Reading about this disorder this week, seemed so well suited to my own mood.

Coming from the extremely busy, holy and fast-paced month of Chagim of Tishrei, having a ‘regular’ work week was a bit of a shock to the system.

Let me do the calculations.

During the first 23 days of the Jewish month of Tishrei (from October 4 – 26th) we had three holidays at the beginning (two days of Rosh Hashana going straight into Shabbat). Followed by Yom Kippur (on the following Shabbat). Three days at the beginning of Sukkot (two days of Sukkot going directly into Shabbat). Three days at the end of Sukkot (two days of Simchat Torah and Shabbat). Plus, four ‘intermediate’ chol hamoed days. That makes fourteen out of twenty-three days being chagim. Out of the other nine ‘regular’ days, four of them were not really full working days as the Jewish holidays and Shabbat starts at sunset which means from early afternoon onwards you have to be making final preparations for Shabbat and Chag. 

Not much ‘regular’ ‘working weekday’ routine going on. Lots of praying, studying, feasting, dancing and camaraderie. 

I find it challenging to adjust back to ‘mundane’ life after such an abundance of holidays and Chagim.

When I read the headline about SAD I realized that this was providentially brought to my attention so I could embrace the reality of the transition I was going through.

Upon further thought, I was wondering why that topic suddenly made it to my news feed. When I googled the topic, I found that just last week (in the middle of the holiday of joy of Sukkot) a book was printed about this very topic. ‘How to Winter’ is the title of the book and it talks about ‘harnessing your mindset to thrive in cold, dark or difficult times’. 

Norway is used as the testing ground for making the best of long dark winter nights.

To me this is such special Divine Providence. 

The timing is so perfect.

Because this is exactly the feeling that Jews have as they exit the special month of Tishrei with all of its Chagim. Its like a radical season change from a sunny balmy month, to a cold winterly reality.

It also perfectly fits the theme of the Parsha this week which is about Noach and the flood.

One of the fascinating things about the flood was how Noach needed to be instructed to leave the ark.

Think about it. If you were cooped up in an ark with only your wife, sons and daughters-in-law and every species of animals on the face of earth, and then they announced that the flood was over, would you need to be instructed to emerge from the ark? I would think that after such an ordeal, the moment the earth was dry enough, you would be itching to leave and get outa there.

Noach, having gotten used to the environment of the cocoon of the ark didn’t want to leave. Inside the ark it was idyllic and peaceful. Even Messianic in the sense that all types of animals that usually devour each other were coexistent and cooperative with each other. Just like it says in the prophecy of Mashiach that ‘the wolf will live with the lamb’, this is what took place in the ark of Noach.

Who wants to leave that kind of warm, holy, camaraderie filled environment?

Its like going out from the warm summer months to the cold harsh winter.

Or like leaving the exalted, inspirational days of the Chagim to enter the stark mundanity of the challenges and tensions of life. 

(This is something we Covid generation can relate to. Some people had trouble reengaging with society after being quarantined in their hotel room for two weeks upon entry to Thailand. There was something relaxing and redeeming about that isolation. Nothing was expected of you. None of the tensions of responsibilities, deadlines, schedules and putting up with the friction of society).

Yet, as spiritually uplifting as the atmosphere in the ark was, Noach was instructed to leave.

Because the intention of Hashem is not to keep the saintly Noach in the enclave environment of cloistered holiness of the ark. Hashem wanted Noach to create a refined world by engaging in it. To be married. To have children and grandchildren. To engage in planting and harvesting. To develop commerce and civic occupations. And against that backdrop, to cultivate the holy environment that Hashem will then call His home.

This is a message to us as well.

Just as Hashem instructed Noach to leave the ark, Hashem moves our seasons and calendar onwards and yes, the winter comes. And we need to learn how to weather the winter.

In the spiritual realm, the celebration-laden month of Tishrei gives way to the not-even-one-holiday-month of Marcheshvan. 

SAD?

NO WAY.

I don’t know what the author of the winter book wrote. I know what the Torah tells us. 

How do you enter the ‘regular’ year and stay JOYOUS? By never truly ending the holidays. By taking the holiday inspiration and spirit and bringing it with you as you ender the mundane days of the year.

The joy of Sukkot and Simchat Torah is meant to give us the tools to inject the rest of the year with joy.

On Sukkot we remember Hashem’s protective embrace. This embrace is always there. We enter the new year in Hashem’s protective hug. It requires thinking back once in a while to the eternal message of Hashems protection.

How can you be scared when embraced by the Almighty?

From whence to get Joy?

Simchat Torah instills within us the joy of being Hashems nation to whom He gave the Torah.

This joy doesn’t stop after Simchas Torah. If we have observed and inculcated the message of Simchas Torah properly, we have started studying Torah more consistently. 

Our joy only grows as we engage in enhanced Torah study.

My friends, there is no reason and no excuse to be sad. 

And more importantly there is no time to be SAD with moodiness from the season change.

During these turbulent times we need ‘all hands on deck’. 

Our holy and heroic soldiers are literally putting their lives on the line as they valiantly protect us at the borders of Israel. The holy residents of Israel who continue to live life with resilience and optimism are awesome. 

All of us wherever we may be spread throughout the world must do our bit as soldiers in ‘tzivot Hashem’ the ‘army of Hashem’. Each of us must do their best for the collective benefit, safety, and redemption of Am Yisrael.

Forward march to making this world the holy and G-dly place that it needs to become.

It starts with making ourselves more G-dly.

The way to do that is first of all by studying Torah.

This is a call to action. 

Incorporate daily study of Torah into your schedule.

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There is no excuse these days not to study. Online Torah lessons, subscriptions to daily emails of Torah, videos teaching Torah, the opportunities to learn Torah have never been greater.

Take a deep dive into Torah. 

Try it. Daily. Please G-d it will provide you with joy, stability, meaning and purpose.

And most of all, you will be connecting intimately with G-d by having His intellect meshed with your brain in a consummate bond that is beyond description.

Shabbat Shalom

Chodesh Tov

Rabbi Yosef Kantor

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