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Purim! Koh Phangan updates

The story of Purim can be told very briefly.

They wanted to kill us. G-d saved us. Let’s eat.

To give a little more detail: The main facts of Purim are that King

Achashverosh was persuaded by Haman to agree to exterminate

the entire Jewish people in his kingdom. Esther who had been

chosen as the new queen managed to miraculously avert the

decree by following the instructions of her uncle Mordechai who

was the Jewish leader at the time.

The Jewish people were given the right to self-defense. The

intended pogrom was warded off by our people who fought back,

and thus the outcome was in our favor.

Instead of being a dark, tragic and disastrous event, it was a

totally transformed outcome. One with light, joy and glory.

We celebrate with incredible joy until this very day.

On Purim we read the entire Megillah at night and day. We recall

all the details.

The longer story contains many details that unfolded over a

decade.

Click here for full Megillat Esther Purim story.

When you live through a story that unfolds gradually over many

years, you may not notice the miraculousness of it all. Only when

reading it as one narrative with all the facts lined up neatly in

sequence do you clearly see the guiding hand of Hashem


weaving together all the details to create the fantastic outcome of

Purim.

Hashem is always running every detail of the world and our lives.

Sometimes we get to see openly how Hashem is coordinating

things. oftentimes it is quite behind the scenes. It may take years

for things to develop. By that time, you may have forgotten the

earlier details and thus not even see the Divine Providence of

how it all came together.

On Purim it’s a great time to try and ‘join the dots’ and see the

‘hand of Hashem’ in the developments of your life.

In that vein I would like to share a comment about the picture I

shared this week of a bulldozer in Ko Pangan.

The bulldozer is the first stages of the building of a women’s

Mikva for family purity that has begun in the yard of Chabad

House of Ko Pangan.

Let me join some dots and go back three years to an article I

wrote in February 2022.

Hashem gave me a special opportunity this week.

As Covid shut the world down, I had been hearing more and

more, of Israeli families relocating to the island of Ko Pangan. As

part of my mission from the Rebbe to spread Torah throughout

the Thailand region, I realized it was time to pay a visit, and feel

out what Ko Pangan was like and consider how to best service

the Jews living there.

An opportunity arose. A friend from Bangkok was visiting Ko

Pangan and introduced me via video call to a family living on the

island who has a son approaching Bar Mitzvah. The ceremony


and celebration will take place in Israel, but they asked me if I

could teach the boy to prepare him. I now had a concrete mission.

A Jewish boy, reaching the age of manhood, and I had the

opportunity to teach him how to put on Tefilin and be called to the

Torah. This to me is presented the perfect and irresistible reason

to make time to visit Ko Pangan and meet the family.

It is always a challenge to find the time to make exploratory trips

of this nature. Hashem presented me with the perfect opportunity.

Earlier this week I found that I could not enter Israel to attend a

memorial event, because of Covid restrictions. This left me with

two days that I had in my schedule to be in Israel but because of

Covid restrictions I was not able to go. I asked my wife if she

would be game to go to Ko Pangan for the day. When she heard

the reasons, to further our mission of spreading Torah and

meeting a potential Bar Mitzvah student, she gave the green light.

Off we went. Flight to Samui. Transfer to pier. Speedboat/ferry

ride of 30 minutes to Ko Pangan. Hot sun. Choppy waters. Strong

smell of engine fuel. I can’t say we enjoyed the ride. In the

pictures it sounds nice, and the word speedboat ferry sounds

glorious. Which is why you can’t rely on social media posts to

experience life. You need to get out there and actually experience

things.

We visited various areas of the island and had some very

enlightening and informative meetings and experiences. We had

a meeting with the Bar Mitzvah boy. We met just across the street

from the pier. I put on tefillin with the father and confirmed that

they would come to Bangkok for some lessons, which we would

complement with lessons via Zoom. Off we went to the return

ferry.


The ferry departure time was 16:30. At about 16:25 they started

boarding. Jumping into the bobbing boat was not something I do

every day but we made it in safely thank G-d. After sitting down

on the boat, I took out my phone and noted the arrival of a new

voice note from a number in the USA that I didn’t recognize. That

voice note had arrived at 16:28.

As the boat was revving up its engine to leave the island, I

listened to the note. It was from a friend of mine in Yeshiva. He

called to tell me that his son – who has the soul of a ‘searcher’ –

would be coming to spend six months on some island not far from

Ko Samui to learn Muay Tai. He was sending me the note to

introduce his son to me and tell me that he was coming. He didn’t

know the name of the island. Only that it was near Ko Samui as

his son said he would visit Chabad of Ko Samui periodically.

I couldn’t believe my ears.

I asked my friend (not sure what he was doing up at 4:28 AM in

the USA) is the name of the island Ko Pangan? He confirmed a

few minutes later that yes, his son was coming to Ko Pangan. I

told my friend that I was just concluding a fact-finding mission and

was on my way off that very island.

Divine Providence at its best.

I could not have received greater heavenly confirmation to our

itinerary than this.

Just as we had concluded a pioneering visit to the island, we got

a further sign that indeed Ko Pangan, while being famous for its

parties, has another dimension to it. It is also a haven for people

looking for meaning and purpose in life. Apparently against the


backdrop of this calming and peaceful island people are able to

slow down and get more in touch with themselves.

Wouldn’t this be a wonderful location to spread the depth and

meaningfulness of Torah? We left from this short visit with a much

deeper understanding and feeling about the nature of the island

and the mindset of the Jewish people who choose to call it home

or pay it visits of varying lengths.

TO BE CONTINUED PLEASE G-D.

This was my article from February 2022.

By the next Rosh Hashana we had already had a young

pioneering couple Rabbi Dovi and Miri (nee Ashkenazi) Deutsch

who had taken up the call to spread Torah and Mitzvot in Ko

Pangan.

My friend who had called me while I was on the ferry sent some

startup funds to get the project going.

A short while later a property became available at a price almost

too good to be true. A dedicated group of our visionary supporters

recognized the unique opportunity and jumped in to make the

purchase happen. Thank G-d a home for Chabad of Ko Pangan

was purchased.

Before the young couple moved to Ko Pangan, they visited the

Rebbe’s Ohel in New York.

Every Shul needs a Sefer Torah so R’ Dovi wrote in his note of

prayer to be read at the Rebbe’s resting place that he is asking for

a blessing to find a Sefer Torah for the new Chabad House he will

be opening.


Prayers also need to be accompanied by concrete actions. Before

going in to pray he made a phone call to a rabbi friend in Israel to

ask if he knew someone who would gift or lend a Sefer Torah to

him. The friend said he didn’t know anyone. A few minutes later

the friend calls R’ Dovi back.

‘Someone just walked into my office and told me that he wanted

to write a new Torah in honor of the healing for his daughter who

was not well. I told him that my friend just called me because he is

opening a new Synagogue in Ko Pangan and needs a Torah. We

are now calling you together. In about a year you will have a new

Sefer Torah for the Chabad House in Ko Pangan’.

The donor was elated to hear that R’ Dovi was about to pray at

the Rebbe’s Ohel and asked him to pray for his daughter as well.

About fifteen months later the Torah was completed. By this time,

it was after October 7 th . The donor’s son in law was in army duty

in Gaza and was seriously injured. During those very days that

the Torah was being completed and the celebration was

underway, the son in law had a miraculous medical turnaround

and is healing well thank G-d.

It was only natural that when R’ Dovi went to visit Israel a few

months ago, he went to see the donor of the Torah to thank him

once again for the great gift of the Sefer Torah to Chabad of Ko

Pangan.

The donor heard about how much active Jewish life there is in the

island and heard R’ Dovi speak about the need for a woman’s

Mikva. He made an offer that left R’ Dovi speechless. ‘Prepare the

architectural plans and tell me the general projection of costs as I


would like to have the merit of building the Mikva at Chabad of Ko

Pangan’.

A few weeks later he sent the first payment for the Mikva and now

the bulldozers have begun to work….

TO BE CONTINUED PLEASE G-D.

This is but a small glimpse of the workings of Hashem that He

allowed me to witness firsthand.

It is a privilege, in honor of the joy of Purim, to share this with you.

And I humbly suggest and invite you to try and find similar things

in your life in which you see the Divine Providence of Hashem’s

wondrous ways working through the seemingly mundane

trappings of your life.

In our parsha of Tisa this week when Moshe asks to see

Hashem’s glory, Hashem says ‘You cannot see My face,” says

Gd, “for no man shall see Me, and live. . . . You shall see My

back, but My face shall not be seen.”

Some commentators say that this alludes to the fact that you can

only see Hashem’s plans ‘from the back’ in hindsight. When the

story is still ‘in front’ it is still unfolding, it may look unfair,

disjointed and haphazard. We are not privy to Hashems plans.

After the dust settles, sometimes many years later, in hindsight,

we may be granted the gift to see the dots and join them together

in the miraculously uplifting path that Hashem leads us on.

This is one of the lessons we can take from the story of Purim and

the Parsha in tandem.


This will help enhance your fulfillment of the mitzvah to rejoice on

Purim with unbridled enthusiasm.

When you contemplate and find these hidden miracles in your

contemporary life in 2025, just as He did miracles for us back then

in the days of Purim, you feel embraced and uplifted by the

personal and individual attention that Hashem gives us.

We should always have REVEALED GOOD and be able to see

Hashems miracles and wonders to us constantly, until we merit

the ultimate and final joy of the coming of Mashiach. AMEN!

Lechayim! To LIFE and to SIMCHA JOY!!!!

Happy Purim

Shabbat Shalom

Rabbi Yosef Kantor

The story of life as a Jew.

Do you ever complain?

It is quite a normal thing.

Life is not perfect. Far from perfect. Only when Mashiach comes will it be perfect. Till then….

We cannot control what goes on in the world, but we can control what we choose to focus on.

Let us define the best possible life environment as Gan Eden (Garden of Eden - Paradice) and the worst possible surroundings as being a prisoner a Nazi concentration-death-camp.

The Rebbe once shared this following observation with a person who was complaining about G-d, and that nothing good ever happened to her in life.

Adam, in Gan Eden, when confronted by Hashem about eating the forbidden fruit blamed ‘the wife that you gave me’ for causing him to eat. Rather than being appreciative for the gift of companionship and love that Hashem had given him, Adam was ungrateful. 

Even in Gan Eden one can have complaints.

On the totally opposite end of the spectrum, even in Nazi concentration camps people found reasons to be grateful to Hashem. There were Jews who recited the morning blessings of thankfulness for waking up etc even in those vilest and dire conditions.

Even in the most excruciating circumstances one can find many spots of positivity.

For the vast majority of people whose life is lived in the vast spectrum that exists between perfection and devastation, there are things that are joyous and G-d forbid there are also things that are challenging. 

The question is what will you try to emphasize in your life. The good or the not so good.

What compounds the challenge of staying positive is that good and evil are sometimes happening at the same time.

The Jewish people have gone through very very challenging times in recent times. I would like to highlight a day that was excruciatingly painful. 

Thursday February 20 – Shevat 22. 

During the day of Thursday, the bodies of the Bibas children, 4-year-old Ariel and nine month old Kfir, murdered by our evil enemies, were brought back to Israel for burial. On Friday the 21st in the evening their mother Shiri’s body was returned.

Click here more articles relating to this heartbreaking tragedy that defies words.

There was not a dry eye in the Jewish people that day. Every single humane person in the world could not remain apathetic to the sheer evil of the murderous groups who sanctified this barbaric murder.

On the very same day, Thursday evening, a woman alerted a bus driver in Bat Yam (a suburb not far from Tel Aviv) that there was a suspicious package on her bus.

The bus driver followed the police’s instructions. He drove to the depot and got off the bus. It was not a second too soon. The explosion ripped through the bus leaving nothing but a charred shell.

Three other buses exploded in rapid succession at bus depots near Tel Aviv.

Police searched all of the buses in the area and found another two unexploded bombs which they neutralized. 

The experts are saying that this was a mega-terror attack planned for 8:00 AM when the buses are packed. Instead, the bombs were mistakenly set for 8:00 PM when most of them were empty of people and parked for the night at the depot.

From a planned mega-terror-attack designed to kill and maim countless victims, not one person was harmed.

A miracle of epic proportions.

On the very same day Am Yisrael concurrently experienced two radically different and diametrically opposite events.

The most hideous barbarism in the Bibas side which plunged all of the Jewish people into a state of mourning.

The most exalted miraculous gift from G-d in the averted mega attack.

The best reason in the world for joyous celebration.

One day. Two events. Deep sadness and grief. Uplifting joyousness.

The story of life as a Jew. 

We mourn the tragedies and with resilience we celebrate the good things. 

When the month of Adar comes in, we increase in joy. We emphasize the happiness and the positivity.

משנכנס אדר מרבים בשמחה

Purim is the holiday of transformation. 

Agony turned to joy. 

Morning turned to celebration.

Darkness turned to light. 

Haman wanted to exterminate our people.

G-d made a miracle. Esther became queen of Persia. Mordechai her uncle saved King Achashverosh’s life. Haman perished. The Jewish people were given the right to self-defense. They fought and won. 

From a calamity that almost wiped out our people, was born the exact opposite. A holiday celebration that is celebrated with unbridled joy.

Purim is the catalyst for the victory of good over evil. Of holiness over impurity. Of light over darkness.

It is also a reminder to focus on the positive. To find the good things to be joyous about.

Take a moment to fulfill the instruction of our Torah to increase in joy.

Find the nice and good and happy things in our life and celebrate them.

And most importantly, commit to fulfilling the mitzvahs of Purim.

Click here.

And may Hashem bring us to the complete transformation of all negativity into positivity with the coming of Mashiach NOW.

Shabbat Shalom

Rabbi Yosef Kantor


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